I can remember my first day of college just like it was yesterday. I was so excited about being a college student which, in my mind, meant that I was a grown woman!  Oh,  and the empowerment of “freedom”… choosing classes, joining social and networking organizations, and deciding which internships to apply for that could further my “grown up” career interests. I soon realized and understood that, even as a young college student, etiquette would play a large role in my professional and social aspirations.

I wanted to succeed, so I paid attention to the behavior, mannerisms, and appearance of a few fellow students who were held in high regard by others and appeared to be on the path to success. These were the classmates who were making positive things happen on campus! I observed how they carried themselves in both educational and social settings. Of course, it’s not always easy at first to fit in; but generally, with a good dosage of proper social etiquette (along with other factors, such as timing and persistence), doors usually open with opportunities to come. Whether interviewing for an internship, networking to meet new (and the right) people, or entering a competition, here are some etiquette essentials for college students:

• Dress for the occasion. Know the difference between formal, business, casual, and party attire.
• Project a pleasant, polite, and positive attitude, without being phony or a pushover.
• Focus on your college plans and career aspirations, and set goals to achieve them.
• Commit to the sacrifice, time, and effort that make learning possible.
• Take time to reflect and, if necessary, be flexible to adjust or modify your goals.
• Remember to sincerely congratulate others on their success and achievements, and be humble with your own.
• Maintain a healthy diet and regular fitness routine to impact overall wellness.

In a large measure, I succeeded in what I set out to do in and after my college years because I remained focused and allowed myself to enjoy what I had prepared and worked for. I recognized this trait in Jacqueline Pierre, one of my etiquette alumni. I am proud of her because she applied what her parents and grandparents taught her before she even sought to refine her etiquette skills under my direction. Jacqueline is a new college student, book author, and public speaker. She’s making all the right moves to make the most of her college years, in part thanks to her campus composure.

Jacqueline Pierre shares, “Mrs. Samuels’ Beckman Etiquette training program helped me understand that etiquette is, in its simplest form, the elimination of distractions. As a public speaker, I try to display polish and professionalism in my appearance, speech, and mannerisms, in ways that keep my audience focused on my message. Etiquette is simply far more than just good manners. It plays a crucial part in building one’s self confidence, as well as sharpening one’s social skills and abilities in different settings.”