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Miles of Milestones
Twelve years ago, a funny, twenty-something bachelor ran a half marathon with me in 36-degree
weather to propose at the finish line. In front of our family and thousands of exhausted competitors,
my runner’s-high spiked as I said “yes!” After 11 years of marriage, I thank God that Paul and I are still
running the course of life together.
I love reminiscing about that slow-paced, infancy stage of our relationship. Today, as parents of an
infant, we seem to be in a constant sprint. Neither of us has time to actually hit the pavement for a
workout so, instead, I’ll playfully compare running to parenting!
Training: As I always did with racing, I physically and mentally prepared myself for pregnancy
and the arrival of our son. Paul and I took a birthing course, breastfeeding class, and read childcare
books. But, unlike sports, mommy and daddy
don’t exactly have a coach calling the shots for us
with a play-by-play handbook! It even seems like
we’re running different stretches of this race, as
my husband and I dash past each other handing
off the baton (um, I mean baby). Fortunately, I
know that we’re on the same team – just with our
uniforms soaked in spit-up versus sweat.
Goal: I typically set objectives for mile splits
and overall times. Well, of course, Paul and I are
now focused on our shared goal of raising a family.
Like most parents, we want to raise a kind, smart,
and healthy individual with a generous and fun-
loving heart. Our pace might falter here and there,
but we’re determined to stay the course.
Course: Parenting is a long distance relay, but
we don’t have a sporty navigation system directing
us. While I don’t know what twists and turns lay
ahead, I’m certain that at some point we’ll feel as
if we’ve taken a wrong turn. Yet keeping our son’s
best interest in mind will get us back on track.
Recovery: Our muscles may not be sore, but our bodies and minds are tired! It’s amazing how
parents can function on such little sleep following overnight feedings or, for those with teens, the
countdown to curfew. We’ll stumble on life’s hurdles, but we’ll recover.
Fans: Cheers amp up motivation, especially during moments when self-doubt makes you want
to give up. Heck, I’ve achieved race records thanks to the enthusiasm of strangers at water stations.
Similarly, the support of others is essential in the parenting race and I’m lucky to have a familiar
cheering squad (family, friends, teachers, neighbors, etc.).
Victory: A race contestant physically crosses the finish line and claims a prize. Perhaps a child’s
milestones are the non-tangible ribbons and medals of parenthood! I’m excited to rack up the miles of
milestones with my sweet boy.
Happy Reading,
Editor’s NOTE
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